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Whether you are completely new to BDSM, Dominance and submission, kink and power exchange or you have been in the lifestyle for a while, a BDSM Contract is the best tool to create and guide your dynamic. Hard Copy. Save time — use the how to topics below or the detailed templates to easily create a beautiful Contract to guide your journey. Why use a Contract? As with any relationship, communication is vital. Writing an agreement is an excellent way to start that conversation.
It helps to bring up difficult topics with each other, your goals, expectations, wants, needs and limits. For beginners, the negotiation process can help you think about and create the exact relationship you need. A contract can guide you as you grow and explore your desires and boundaries together. ing a Contract is not about trying to make someone stay with you.
A Contract can be anything from a paragraph to tens of s in length. The more detailed, the safer and more certain your arrangement will be. Most importantly, it needs to be customized to you. Even though such documents are never legally binding, ing your own personal covenant can give you direction and a place to turn to when there are disagreements. It also amplifies a moral sense of being bound to the other person. A Contract is always unique to the arrangement. Note: The definition of a slave vs sub can differ markedly between different groups, locations and communities.
The lifestyle is so diverse and not all interactions are going to fit into the above . Regardless, there are essential terms that should be incorporated into every agreement. Negotiating your agreement is fun and exciting. Drafting the terms takes a long time, especially when starting from scratch. Some people take weeks to perfect their deal, some even months. A template can save you lots of time and helps you create a beautiful contract specially suited to you. Use our downloadable templates to negotiate and formalize your dynamic.
Take a look at the detailed list of our Contract forms , or select from below:. We also have a hard copy version, which is available in four elegant cover des. It helps keep you in the hepace. Key questions to ask yourselves when writing your own rules: WHY are you incorporating this rule and WHAT do you wish to achieve with it. The submissive acknowledges that she is in training mode and therefore will be required to wear a training collar for the duration of this Contract.
At the end of the Contract term, if the parties renew the Contract and the Dominant feels the submissive has earned a formal collar, the Dominant may present her with a permanent collar. This provides two benefits. Firstly, it gives the sub an incentive to be good and to give all effort during any training period. Secondly, it makes you re-evaluate your dynamic when it comes to that stage, rather than blindly jumping all in. Remember, a permanent collar in the BDSM world is like a wedding ring. The submissive is required to prepare nutritious meals for himself and for the Dominant every day including breakfast, lunch and dinner.
The submissive is required to sleep with the Dominant undressed every night. Important note : when creating your rules, remember to separate between fantasy and reality. Whilst it might seem delightful to spend all day in a cage, this is just not practical. Make sure your rules are practical and always keep safety in mind. If you want to control the diet for a vegan sub for example, you should know the nutrition requirements. This is also a very personal choice to be made between the parties involved.
You may just want a private ceremony between yourselves, without any witnesses or anybody present. An intimate dinner perhaps? Followed by a spanking? Or you can make it a fancy event and invite your lifestyle friends to be involved. It simply adds moral authority. To further enhance moral authenticity, some even in blood. If the document is central to a collaring ceremony, it is usually ed after the slave has been collared.
Any way you choose is perfectly fine as long as you are both happy with it. In long distance relationships, you may just accept the ature in digital form and then physically when you meet in person. In the beginning, when starting with a new partner, you may want to set yourselves short contract periods about 2 weeks to a maximum of one month. What happens next is to be decided between you both. This is something you will need to discuss at the time based on what you both want and need. This is a good way to keep your dynamic fresh and to ensure you both remain happy and satisfied.
Not all partners will reduce their negotiations to writing. There is no requirement for you to have one and some people in the community actually refuse to ever enter into one. In saying so, there are many that do write an agreement and rely on it regularly, especially whens tarting a new relationship.
It will most likely require changes regularly in the beginning to accommodate your progress. Remember Me. Create a new . Select Your Contract How do you identify yourselves? Plenty of ideas for your rules. BDSM Contract Guide Save time — use the how to topics below or the detailed templates to easily create a beautiful Contract to guide your journey.
Types of Dynamics A Contract is always unique to the arrangement. Subs may also set limits on sexual play and punishment and can stop the dynamic at any time. In effect, some would argue that Dominants have less power over submissives than Masters have over slaves. Online — engaging in dominance and submission over the internet, often without ever meeting in person. These are becoming more popular with parties often having multiple partners. Pets — an agreement whereby the pet slave is dehumanized and takes on the characteristics of an animal pet like a puppy or pony under the control of an Owner or Handler.
Scene only — negotiated prior to a scene or a series of scenes, whether sexual or not. Take a look at the detailed list of our Contract forms , or select from below: Downloadable View Template Options. Hard Copy We also have a hard copy version, which is available in four elegant cover des. Princess Pink Tan Leather Look. View the Hard Cover. How do you wish to interact with one another? Collar — will you have a training collar? A day collar? Will you implement and enforce an exercise routine? Hair — What are the rules for shaving or hairstyles?
Journal — is the sub required to keep a journal? Are they free to express anything without punishment? Expansion of the mind — will the sub have any obligations to learn new skills? Clothing and dress — will the sub be required to be naked? If so, when? May the Dom select clothing and underwear for the sub? Erotic servitude — what services will be provided and when. Is the sub always to be ready and willing? Example Rule 1: Collars The submissive acknowledges that she is in training mode and therefore will be required to wear a training collar for the duration of this Contract.
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